← Back to the full guide
Prints on A4. A list to keep with you and tick off as you go.
Birth & Mother
Birth & Mother
Grow into motherhood with Birth & Mother.
English-speaking support, stories, and resources for pregnancy, birth, and the early years.
Step-by-Step Guide

Your step-by-step guide

Pregnancy, birth, and the weeks after in Germany, in English.

First trimester · Weeks 5 to 13

What is happening

A positive test, and a hundred feelings at once: joy and disbelief, and just as often fear or a flatness no one warned you about. Your body is already at work even when nothing shows. The first trimester is mostly invisible and mostly internal, which is part of why it can feel lonely far from family.

Your care

Care begins with one appointment: book in with a gynaecologist between weeks 5 and 8, where the pregnancy is confirmed and you receive your Mutterpass. How the rest of your care is shared is your choice: a midwife (Hebamme) can carry out almost all routine check-ups, with only the scans and certain fine diagnostics staying with the gynaecologist. The first routine ultrasound falls between weeks 9 and 12. Extra first-trimester screening (nuchal translucency, NIPT) sits outside standard covered care.

Decisions to make

Start looking for a midwife (Hebamme) this week; waiting lists are real and you contact them directly.
Decide who holds your prenatal care: the midwife, the gynaecologist, or a shared arrangement.
If you are offered extra first-trimester screening, decide whether it is right for you.
You are not required to tell your employer yet; most people wait until after the first scan.

Admin & paperwork

Book your first gynaecologist appointment to confirm the pregnancy and receive your Mutterpass.
If you are on private insurance (PKV), ask your insurer about midwife cover, birth setting, and on-call fees.

Second trimester · Weeks 14 to 27

What is happening

For many this is the kindest stretch: energy returns, nausea often eases, and you begin to show. Somewhere in here you feel the first movements. You tell people, and the pregnancy stops being a secret you carry alone.

Your care

Care settles into a rhythm: routine check-ups (Vorsorge) roughly every four weeks, shared between your gynaecologist and midwife. The detailed anatomy scan falls between weeks 19 and 22, and the gestational diabetes screening (oGTT) around weeks 24 to 28. This is also the season for birth preparation, so secure the antenatal class you want.

Decisions to make

Decide where you would like to give birth: hospital, birth house (Geburtshaus), or home. Tour the options and ask whether English-speaking midwives are on the team.

Admin & paperwork

Notify your employer in writing when ready, usually weeks 12 to 20. Maternity protection (Mutterschutz) begins once they know.
Book a birth preparation class (Geburtsvorbereitungskurs); usually covered by your insurer.
Book a tour or information evening (Infoabend) at the places you are considering.

Third trimester · Weeks 28 to 40+

What is happening

The body is unmistakable now, and loud. Sleep grows lighter, and a kind of nesting urgency arrives. Underneath the logistics there is often a tender mix of impatience, nerves, and awe.

Your care

Check-ups quicken: the third ultrasound between weeks 29 and 32, and from week 32 appointments move to every two weeks, with heart-rate monitoring (CTG) as needed. Around weeks 30 to 34 comes the registration appointment (Anmeldegespräch) at your chosen hospital. If you pass your due date, your team will offer extra monitoring rather than rush you.

Decisions to make

Think through and write down your birth plan (Geburtsplan) with your partner or birth team.
Confirm your midwife for postpartum (Wochenbett) care.
Agree the shape of your parental leave: how many months each, and whether to use Basis-Elterngeld, ElterngeldPlus, or both.

Admin & paperwork

Attend the registration appointment (Anmeldegespräch), weeks 30 to 34.
Finish your birth preparation class.
Pack your hospital bag around week 36.
Register parental leave (Elternzeit) with your employer at least seven weeks before it begins; binding for the first two years.

Birth and the first days · The week around birth

What is happening

Labour, birth, and the first astonishing hours. It may follow your plan or ask you to let the plan go. In Germany a healthy parent and baby usually stay in hospital one to three days; after a birth house or home birth you are often home within hours. Your midwife's postpartum visits begin almost straight away.

Your care

The midwife leads the birth and doctors step in only if needed. You have the right to a companion and to consent to (or decline) every intervention. Your baby's first check (U1) happens immediately, the second (U2) between days 3 and 10. Your midwife then begins daily home visits through the first ten days.

Admin & paperwork

Register the birth at the registry office (Standesamt) within one week. Request several copies of the birth certificate (Geburtsurkunde).
Register the baby with your health insurance.
Begin your parental allowance (Elterngeld) application; apply within three months for the full back-dated payment.
Apply for child benefit (Kindergeld) through the family benefits office (Familienkasse).

Fourth trimester · Postpartum, and after

What is happening

The Wochenbettis Germany's name for the first weeks after birth, held as a protected, slow, mostly indoor time: healing, feeding around the clock, and a body that is suddenly yours again and not quite the same. This is precisely the stretch the German system expects you to be cared for, not just the baby.

Your care

Your midwife is the centre of this phase: daily visits for the first ten days, then less often through the first eight weeks, with breastfeeding support (Stillberatung) for months after. Your baby's U3 falls around weeks 4 to 5, and at about six weeks a postnatal check (Nachuntersuchung) closes the formal medical postpartum. From around week six a recovery course (Rückbildungskurs) begins, covered by your insurer.

Decisions to make

Decide who is going to bring you food, and when.
Decide what extra support you want: a postpartum doula, household help (Haushaltshilfe), a meal rota, a paid hand for the laundry.

Admin & paperwork

Finish the parental allowance (Elterngeld) application if you have not already.
Confirm child benefit (Kindergeld) is set up.
Ask your insurer about home help (Haushaltshilfe).
Find your local follow-on care: Rückbildungskurs, baby groups, and a paediatrician.

The paperwork checklist

Weeks 5 to 8

Visit your gynaecologist, confirm the pregnancy, and receive your Mutterpass.
Begin searching for a midwife (Hebamme) this week.

Weeks 8 to 12

Contact several midwives.
Consider booking a birth preparation class.
Begin researching birth settings.

Weeks 12 to 20

Notify your employer in writing.
Request confirmation of your pregnancy-related protections.
Begin the maternity protection certificate (Mutterschutzbescheinigung) process.

Weeks 20 to 28

Decide on your birth setting.
Register with a hospital or birth house (Geburtshaus), or contract your home-birth midwife.
Tour facilities.

Weeks 28 to 32

Book your birth preparation class.
Start thinking about a birth plan (Geburtsplan).
Plan to pack the hospital bag around week 36.

Weeks 30 to 34

Attend the registration appointment (Anmeldegespräch).
Discuss parental leave (Elternzeit) plans with your partner.

Week 36 onwards

Confirm your midwife for postpartum (Wochenbett) care.
Finalise your birth plan.

Within one week of birth

Register the birth at the registry office (Standesamt).
Request several copies of the birth certificate (Geburtsurkunde).

Within the first weeks postpartum

Apply for parental allowance (Elterngeld), within three months ideally.
Apply for child benefit (Kindergeld) through the Familienkasse.
Register your baby with your health insurance (Krankenkasse).

Seven weeks before parental leave begins

Submit your parental leave request in writing to your employer.

When to call for help

  • 112 (Notruf): life-threatening emergencies: heavy bleeding, sudden severe pain, loss of consciousness, no baby movement for an extended time, or anything that genuinely frightens you.
  • 116 117 (Ärztlicher Bereitschaftsdienst): out-of-hours medical advice when your practice is closed and it is not a 112-level emergency.
  • Your midwife: pregnancy symptoms, postpartum recovery, feeding, and the baby.
  • In labour: call the labour ward (Kreißsaal) of your registered hospital directly; the number is in your Mutterpass after registration. For a birth house or home birth, call your midwife.

Trusted resources across Germany

  • Ammely · no-cost midwife search, run by the German Midwives' Association
  • familienportal.de · official guide to Elterngeld, Kindergeld, and Mutterschutz
  • Elterngeld-Digital · the official online application for parental allowance
  • Netzwerk der Geburtshäuser · the national network of German birth houses
  • Doula-Verbund Deutschland · a German doula association, to find a doula near you
  • La Leche Liga · non-commercial breastfeeding support
  • Schatten und Licht · support through peripartum depression in Germany

This is informational, not medical advice. Your midwife (Hebamme) and gynaecologist are your primary care; everything here is the orientation that comes before, between, and after their appointments.

birthandmother.comLast updated July 2026 · Written by Emma