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One-to-one, by video

The map you wishyou'd been handed

A calm orientation in the German maternity system, wherever you are.

What it is

The German maternity system, brought into focus

Being pregnant in Germany, far from home and often in a second language, can leave you holding more questions than answers. The system is thorough, but it is rarely explained, and there is not always someone to ask.

An Orientation Consultation is one unhurried hour, by video, to change that. We start from wherever you are right now, make sense of what is in front of you, and leave you clearer, with a plan you can act on.

This is for families anywhere in Germany. My hands-on, in-person doula work is rooted in Potsdam and the Berlin and Brandenburg region, but the consultation is online and for you wherever you live. It is a practical, low-commitment way to feel steady, drawing on my doula training and my own experience of navigating this system as an international mum.

What we can cover

Whatever is keeping youup at night

Find your footing in the system

How midwife (Hebamme) care works here, what your insurance actually covers, what each birth setting feels like, and what the postpartum asks of you, so you can prepare for it properly.

Answer your specific questions

Bring whatever is on your mind: finding a midwife, choosing where to give birth, your rights in appointments, the paperwork, or something that does not fit neatly into any guide.

Talk through a decision

We look at the choice in front of you, what the evidence says, and what is likely to matter most to you, so you can walk into your next appointment steady and informed.

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Who it is for

This hour may be for you if...

You are newly pregnant in Germany and not sure where to begin.

You are weighing where to give birth, and want to understand the options.

You are struggling to find a midwife and want a clear plan.

Your appointments are in German, and you want to understand the system in your own language.

You have a specific decision coming up and want to think it through with someone who knows how things work here.

You are not in Potsdam or Berlin, but still want guidance you can trust.

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Book your consultation

€65usual rate, one hour

Not charged while we soft-launch.

A one-to-one video session at a time that works for you, evenings included. You do not need to prepare anything or arrive with a clear idea of what you need. Just come as you are.

Birth & Mother is in a gentle test phase. While we finish setting up behind the scenes, this consultation is offered at no charge as guidance and orientation.

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No cost, just a conversation

Or simply talk to me first

Before any of this, every mother is welcome to a half-hour with me, by video, at no charge. It is an open door, a chance to get to know each other and see if we are a fit.

Come with a question that has been on your mind, explore the care I offer, or let me help you find your way around everything here. Whatever brought you, you are welcome to bring it.

If we find ourselves in something that needs longer, or you have your own wishes to work through that fall outside the care I offer, we can simply arrange another time to carry on. Entirely your choice, and never a condition of the first call.

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A gentle note

A consultation is information and orientation, not medical advice. Your gynaecologist and midwife (Hebamme) lead your clinical care. What I bring is a clear map of the system, an understanding of your choices, and the steady presence of someone who has navigated it.

If something would be better met by a clinician or another professional, I will say so, and help you find the right person.

Not sure if it is what you need?

If you would rather just ask a question first, you are warmly welcome to get in touch. No pressure, no commitment.

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